So my friend Chris today has the audacity to tell me women my AGE are pretty much undatable because: " All ladies your age that are single have too many bad experiences and are jaded or plenty of baggage. It's just to much effort sometimes trying to prove your not the EX." At first I was furious and then it made me contemplate myself, my friends and my experiences. It's so true... Most of the time we aren't simply happy dating the nice guys we meet: they have to be perfect, and they definitely have to be a hell of alot better then the EX. This of course includes proving that they are trust worthy instead of trusting them right away, also proving they are worthy of our love because we are definitely not just going to give it up again... How does this problem get resolved? how do we get away from this stigma? And how do we learn to just accept these silly boys for who they are without always wanting to change them? Clearly I don't have the answer... But I would love to be enlightened...